You're not imagining it...

Your child’s fear and anxiety aren’t “just a phase.” And no, they’re not just being dramatic. But good news!

Does your child:

  • Clings at dropoff leaving you both feeling overwhelmed daily

  • Melts down over transitions turning simple moments into exhausting battles that leave you dreading the next one

  • Avoids new things impacting the whole family leaving you feeling embarrassed or ashamed

  • Constantly needs reassurance leaving you both frustrated and stuck in an exhausting cycle

You’ve probably tried staying calm.

You’ve Googled.

You’ve given it your all. You’ve asked your friends. You’ve even wondered if therapy is the next step… But it’s expensive, time-consuming. And you’re not even sure your kid would open up. You’re not failing. You just need a plan that puts the parent back in the driver’s seat.

This is what happens when you stop trying to eliminate anxious emotions, and start helping your child handle them.

Can you imagine this:

  • You know exactly what to say and what not to say so meltdowns are suddenly shorter and less frequent

  • Your child starts to do new things outside of their comfort zone, even when they're nervous

  • Your child no longer clings at goodbyes and goodnights, making drop offs and bedtimes easier

  • Your child tackles things independently you couldn't have imagined like, playing alone in another room

  • You hear "I'm so proud of myself!" regularly, and feel more connected to your child because they feel safe and supported through their worries

  • Your child confidently orders for themselves at a restaurant or says hello to a new person without you needing to prompt them

Here's what most people get wrong

You can’t logic your child out of their fear and you can’t walk on eggshells forever

Instead of constantly accommodating their worry, you need to help them build tolerance for it. There is an evidence-based framework for that, it’s called SPACE.

SPACE = Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions

SPACE is a research-backed approach proven to help parents reduce anxiety by changing our own responses. Learn the SPACE method, developed by Dr. Eli Lebowitz, proven in randomized controlled clinical trials to help parents reduce accommodations and empower kids to face their anxiety.

Welcome to the Parenting The Anxious Child Membership

The membership for parents of children between the ages of 3-10 who are ready to foster more independence and confidence while still creating connection and validation in the tough moments.

Parenting the Anxious Child Membership

This membership is an on-demand education and support hub for parents of kids struggling with fear, avoidance, and worry.

  • You will learn how to:

  • Identify the subtle ways you’re keeping your kids anxiety present and loud (that you probably don’t even realize and are doing out of love)

  • Set boundaries without feeling parental guilt (because you’re still validating and not hurting your child’s attachment in the process)

  • How to foster secure attachment AND a confident, independent child

  • Decrease your child’s fear over time with new tools that don’t require you to “fix everything” for them

  • Learn the language that’s proven to decrease your child’s anxiety (and yours!)

  • Trust yourself as a parent to know exactly what to say and what to do when the fear pops up (and handle it in a way that doesn’t control your family or lives)

The fact that you're even here reading this means you care deeply about your kid. You're not a bad parent for being afraid of their fear. You're a loving parent who's been trying to fix something that doesn't need fixing. You don't need to carry their anxiety anymore. This membership gives you the tools to put it down.

Meet your SPACE expert

Robyn Isman

LICSW

As a coach for parents of anxious kids, and a mom of three just trying to figure it all out, I understand just how overwhelming it can feel to navigate daily life with anxiety in the mix. I’m a licensed therapist and certified provider of SPACE (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions), the only evidence-based treatment proven to decrease childhood anxiety by only working with parents. With over a decade of experience supporting families, I specialize in guiding parents to break free from the cycle of over-accommodation and replace it with supportive, effective responses. Through my membership program and 1:1 SPACE therapy practice, I equip parents with practical, neuroscience-backed strategies that foster independence, resilience, and lasting confidence in their kids.

What's included in the membership?

  • Core Video Course: A Parent’s Guide to the SPACE Approach with short, digestible lessons so you can learn how to incorporate SPACE and it’s tools into your everyday parenting

  • Monthly LIVE Office Hours with Robyn to troubleshoot, ask questions, digest and process recent situations in your family, etc

  • LIVE access to monthly practical parenting webinars on the specialized topics parents ask about most

  • Webinar replay library with on-demand access to all sessions you miss live

  • Exclusive online community for parent support and connection with others walking through the same journey

  • Downloadable tips, scripts, guides and resources so you have guidance on the go

Through this membership, parents are experiencing

  • Their child sleeping independently

  • Easier goodbyes and drop-offs

  • Less reassurance-seeking

  • Going to school without the meltdowns and bribery

  • Stop having to shadow your child for every task or to every room

  • Feeling more connected to your kid because you finally stopped battling

What others are saying

“New things can still be scary for [my child] but she’s trying them and making so much progress. She is going to school without issues and excelling. Sleeping in her own bed, showering independently, and engaging with other kids without me holding her hand. I have recommended you to so many of my friends and patients!”

“I learned a lot of languages I can use in the moment when my child's anxiety is overtaking a situation. My response has helped dissipate situations instead of increasing anxiety. I think this course has given me a great toolset that I have to continually use to be able to decrease my child's anxious symptoms over time. ”

“After working with Robyn, my child accepted my boundary much more readily than I expected and seemed to move on from the anxious feeling/perseverating more quickly than she has in the past.”

“Thanks to Robyn, I am now able to accept that both parents and children will need to experience the short-term discomfort of anxiety and the behavior it triggers to help my child build up to more confidence and independence in the long term.”

This membership is for you if...

  • Your 3–10 year old struggles with fear, worry, or avoidance

  • You want to feel more confident, calm, and clear as a parent

  • You’re ready to stop reinforcing anxiety (without shame or guilt)

  • You want a research-backed method that feels human

This membership is NOT for you if...

  • You want therapy or a clinical diagnosis

  • You expect someone else to “fix” your child

  • You’re not ready to change your own habits

This isn't about following some expert's one-size-fits-all advice

Forget rigid parenting rules. I'm not going to tell you to stop laying with your kid at bedtime (I still do it!). Instead, you'll learn to identify what's actually feeding anxiety vs. what's just normal parent stuff. You get to decide what works for your family, this membership just give you the framework to make those calls confidently.
Give Me The Tools

Start today and access everything in the membership all for less than the price of a single 1:1 session

For $27 per month you will get:

  • Full SPACE-approach video course about the basics and how to incorporate SPACE in your home.

  • Downloadable tips, scripts, guides and resources

  • Monthly office hours with live Q&A and support with Robyn

  • Access to LIVE webinars and replay library

  • Updates and new content as the membership expands with more resources regularly

Commit to Change, Not Just a Month

Why is there a 3-month minimum?

This isn’t about quick fixes and empty promises. This membership is about building skills that last. That’s why membership is $27/month with a 3-month minimum. Those first three months give you time to learn the tools, try them in real life, and see meaningful changes in your home. Most parents find that by month three, they’re feeling more confident, less overwhelmed, and more connected to their child.

FAQ

  • Who is the Parenting The Anxious Child membership for?

    This resource membership is designed for parents of anxious children ages 3-10 who want practical, research-based strategies to help their kids navigate anxiety without unintentionally reinforcing it.

  • What are Robyn Isman's qualifications?

    Robyn Isman, LICSW, holds over a decade of clinical experience and is SPACE-certified. You’ll gain access to expert guidance from someone trained directly in one of the most effective treatments for childhood anxiety.

  • How is this membership different from therapy?

    The Parenting the Anxious Child Membership is not a substitute for therapy because it does not diagnose, assess for safety, or provide individualized mental health treatment. Instead, this membership offers educational tools, strategies, and on-demand resources to coach parents as they support their child’s anxiety with confidence.

  • Will I get direct access to Robyn?

    Yes! Robyn hosts monthly office hours where members can ask questions and get direct guidance specialized to their family. Robyn is not acting as your therapist in this capacity, she cannot assess for diagnosis or safety.

  • What updates will the membership include?

    We are excited to continually expand the membership resources. So far, the planned updates include an expanded on-demand video library, and additional resources.

  • Is there a commitment?

    Membership access is a 3-month commitment. This gives you time to put the tools into practice and see real change. You can cancel at any time, but billing recurs every 3 months.

  • Do you offer refunds?

    Due to the digital nature of this membership and its content, refunds are not offered.

  • Do my spouse or co-parent and I need to be on the same page for this to work?

    SPACE combines two typically opposing forms of parenting, and the feedback I often receive after implementing the approach is that parents are more on the same page than ever.

  • Is the membership needed for individual parents or the whole family?

    You can share your login and use the membership however it benefits you most. Mom can come one month, dad the next, etc.

This membership gives you the tools to respond with calm, hold boundaries with confidence, and watch your child grow more resilient week by week.

You don’t have to walk on eggshells anymore. You don’t need to fix every fear or find the perfect words.

Ready to stop managing fear and start building confidence in yourself and your child?
Join Now!